Happy NewYear! 2011

New year is just next door and people are busy planning for the parties. Parties to welcome the coming year and bidding good bye to the year gone by, Whilst newspapers are full of instructions and news for spending the eve. Just went through the local papers for Pune and read that police force is taking extra care for the people celebrating new year party as they booze a lot and is a trouble for the society. I don't just understand that why parties always have to relate to booze and alcoholism. And specially those that need some kind of resolutions for new year, some extra efforts for us to make a new person, an improved individual and making life more and more comfortable more and more mature. Why should some police force be involved in making society or ourselves a good individual.

Well I may sound a bit orthodox while stating against alcohol. Sure have it but why not in limit? What is the point in celebrating the new year eve boozing so much that while driving it may be the end of life itself, then whats the point in welcoming new year if we are not going to be there at all to see that? Instead coming together and sharing the experiences of our own with friends,having fun together, enjoying mouth watering delicacies and resolute for new year where we want to be in future, sounds better to me. How can one resolute at all when the brains are totally fuzzy with alcohol, nope no way at all. Too much of anything is too bad....but who in this world understands the real meaning of life and its achievements....I know I might be a party pooper for many of those who are planning to totally booze this year...but sorry...this is how I am....

Quite frankly we should be thinking about all the values that one has to follow being a human being. The values which I mean are the ones not limiting to the culture, tradition or caste,but the values that a human being must follow to be a good citizen in the society. When we are kind of punished by the law for bad behaviour then what right we have to fight for our future? These thoughts definitely come to my mind when I read about the rave parties/ drunk and driving/ so called party bashes with hell of a chaos.

Well we are the ones making our own future and making our kids ready for it as well. So I personally think whether this is the example kids should have in front of them? Then going ahead we have to think twice ,I would say hundred times while expecting good returns from them. Think about it.

Happy new year!!

moment full of coffee...

Today Saturday, a regular yet extended weekend. Morning was spent as usual watching some TV stuff, and regular weekend chores. Not a busy day at all. But noon and evening was a bit looked forward to as some of the friends were to come visit us, and hence my day took off with planning and preparing later.

Evening covering all the events of the day as planned was tapering towards end. Hubby dear offered a cup of coffee to me and said lets chat for some time and then the day would retire as normal. But then a cup of coffee is never just a beverage, its more than that. Many things happen over coffee and same was the case. Nope, don't think wild, but we had a real good chat of ages over the coffee cup. Hot steaming brewed coffee was playing its perfect part and making our conversations more and more aromatic. We started with how the day was and overall events during. One memory leading to other making a chain which ended in our past. Our past which was more fresh, more young and full of life, making comparisons with today's life unknowingly. But surely we were not feeling bad or sad about today's situation, about today's life that we have.

We wondered in our then new days of life. We wondered like new couple in the garden of thoughts. We picked up delicate flowers of sweet moments we experienced together when we had just met. Out of which I would like state one here. In wee hours of night I would get calls from him stating he missed me and then that would follow with a beautiful gazal of Jagjit singh "Teir Aakhon ki samunder main utar jane de, tera mujarim hun main muze dub ke mar jane de"...Jagjit has played a really important part of our life and the moments to cherish for life long. Now when we look back and try to see our past, we are surely thankful to Jagjit :)

Then we talked on all other topics including politics, finance and songs..where there was no relevenace to the other.

But the whole conversation was so full of cherishable moments and refreshing memories that made my day! Alls well that ends well....of course with coffee. We concluded our day only to again start a new life full of vigour..picking up from where we had left the past...

Thank u hubby dear for one more wonderful moment in our life....which will be added to the chain of sweet memories in the scrap book of our life :)!! ....